So, what tends to come up around me and dating is that I don’t do or say the right things around guys I’m interested in or who seem to be interested in me. Here’s my thing. I am me, that’s who I am. Why should I worry about what I say or do when I’m around said guy? Seriously, if I alter my personality in any way and snag the guy, what’s going to happen down the road if it becomes serious?
Check it out. I burp and fart and I like it! Well, I don’t really like the farting if it’s smelly but, farting is funny right!? And I do enjoy a good burp contest. That’s just who I am I can’t help it. I try to be myself around everybody. I don’t like makeup, I can’t wear heels comfortably anymore and I love to be comfortable so, being cute is not a priority. If a guy still likes me after all that then, good for him. He has a chance. I really don’t like this whole GET THAT MAN attitude that has been drilled into our female brains almost from birth. We should not be taught to play games to snag a man. Now, sorry guys but, I have noticed that there are simple things a woman can do to get you, men can be simple. It’s not your fault, you can’t help it. We women have our weaknesses too. I personally feel like an idiot doing those things, but I do believe I’ve missed out on some opportunities. I like to believe it was for the best.
So, anyway, I know in my heart when that perfect guy comes, he will come for me, I will not have to chase him and he will love me for who I am. I don’t run for busses, why should I run after a guy.
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